HONESTLY SPEAKING:

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Honesty and Openness is one of the ten most important emotional needs identified in marriage, which means that when it's met, it can trigger the feeling of love. But it's counterpart, dishonesty, is one of the five most destructive Love Busters. When spouses are dishonest, they destroy the love they have for each other.

But there is a third reason that honesty is crucial in marriage. Honesty is the only way that you and your spouse will ever come to understand each other. Without honesty, the adjustments that are crucial to the creation of compatibility in your marriage cannot be made. Without honesty, your best efforts to resolve conflicts will be wasted because you will not understand each other well enough to find mutually acceptable solutions.


WE HAVE HELP:

God knows we sometimes feel as if no one is on our side, especially when we are the only person standing for what is right. But we are never alone. Jonathan knew God's power and strength and relied upon Him when he was vastly outnumbered b y the Philistines. With God's help, he overcame the enemy.

We must learn to come to God with our battles and fears. The size of the problem does not affect His ability to act. Those problems in your relationship, take them to God. Those issues in your marriage, take them to God. The battles you deal with as you await finding the right one, take them to God.

With Him at our side, we will conquer the problems that once seemed impossible. Remember for God nothing is impossible. READ 1 Samuel 12:1-23