You don't have to force it. What is truly yours would definitely come to you. Do your best and leave the rest to the higher force controlling the world. What you know are the things you can see and comprehend. The things you don't know and can't see are unlimited.
Sometimes things get out of hand and you feel like life is going down. Sometimes you just can not make things work and you feel you are on a wrong path. Nothing good come easy so brace yourself up for the storm you must sail through to get there. The bigger what you chase the stronger the challenge you would face. Tough time never last but tough people do.
Winners never give up. They just stay up and focused till they hit the goal. We are in a world wide race and just need to form alliance with right people moving in our direction; with the same or even better stronger zeal. The energy we carry and field of energy around us go a long way determining how fast we get there. So stop doubting and start taking more bold actions. Identify your distractions and keep them faraway. Believe in yourself and believe in God. Everything would work out for good in the best timing.