Good morning world,
I came across this post on a whatsapp group and it made me realize how much we tend to look at life from our point of view with some judgment or jealous whenever we meet a former friend, school mate, or neighbor and their story is beneath what we consider a successful life or above our consideration of a successful life, respectively. Love and accept people where they are at (unless they are on a road to self destruction, then give them tough love and help). Be kind and wish them well, because we all have different paths and destinies on this planet.
“Dear School Mates
Some of us didn't further our education after secondary school. Some of us went further to university. Some of us got married, yet some of us are not married. Some of us are still struggling with life. Some of us are already settled. Some of us are still finding it difficult to even eat two square meals in a day. Some of us have traveled abroad. Some of us went back the village. Some of us have seen real hell and still facing hell. Some of us the last time we sat in a classroom was the last day we wrote our secondary school exam. In short; Life isn't cool for everyone. The fact that you are settled and doing well, doesn't mean others are on the same page with you.
Whenever you call or run into your old classmates, let the conversation be simple that we are still alive should be a thing to celebrate . Stop making your friends feel less valued because you are married, working, engaged or done with school. Life is filled with ups downs!
Fr lanchord”
Copied and pasted.
Xoxo,
Mamatembo
I came across this post on a whatsapp group and it made me realize how much we tend to look at life from our point of view with some judgment or jealous whenever we meet a former friend, school mate, or neighbor and their story is beneath what we consider a successful life or above our consideration of a successful life, respectively. Love and accept people where they are at (unless they are on a road to self destruction, then give them tough love and help). Be kind and wish them well, because we all have different paths and destinies on this planet.
“Dear School Mates
Some of us didn't further our education after secondary school. Some of us went further to university. Some of us got married, yet some of us are not married. Some of us are still struggling with life. Some of us are already settled. Some of us are still finding it difficult to even eat two square meals in a day. Some of us have traveled abroad. Some of us went back the village. Some of us have seen real hell and still facing hell. Some of us the last time we sat in a classroom was the last day we wrote our secondary school exam. In short; Life isn't cool for everyone. The fact that you are settled and doing well, doesn't mean others are on the same page with you.
Whenever you call or run into your old classmates, let the conversation be simple that we are still alive should be a thing to celebrate . Stop making your friends feel less valued because you are married, working, engaged or done with school. Life is filled with ups downs!
Fr lanchord”
Copied and pasted.
Xoxo,
Mamatembo
