Are We Conditioned to Suffer?

This is not the first time I've caught myself wanting to be busy when everything around me—and within me—is saying, calm down. Relax. Enjoy this peace.

A few minutes later, my mind begins to wander, thinking about all the things I should be doing instead of sitting here, breathing in the fresh air, enjoying the view, and praising God for His amazing creation—the lush greenery, the beautiful blue sky, and the white clouds above.

Who told us we have to be busy to feel good about ourselves?

Does this stem from our mothers waking us up on Saturdays—in the name of not raising lazy children—instead of letting us rest? Does it come from being millennials and growing up hearing phrases like, work hard and survival of the fittest?

Do we realize that, for the most part, creativity comes when we are relaxed? When we allow ourselves to meditate, be one with the Creator, appreciate the beauty of creation, practice gratitude, and embrace the goodness of God around us in whatever form it comes.

Paying bills is important, but being in alignment with who we are and what we are called to do is even more important. We don't have to toil; we can co-create with God. We can create the life God has planned for us.

"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." — Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

May we allow ourselves to simply be, and trust the process.

XOXO,

Mamatembo Safari
Kampala, Uganda

What Doesn’t Kill You Makes You Stronger

This is exactly what you think it is, another cliche of a title. But wait, there is a catch. You see, sometimes what doesn’t kill you makes you wiser. December was one of those holiday seasons when I got to have a very slow two weeks. I struggled when my life slowed down. It felt odd being so busy, then all of a sudden everything slowed down. 

 To slow down, I worked on my arts and crafts. I made handmade earrings, bracelets, and I made a box from scratch. It was a good me-time that I needed.

Come January, I had a work trip that I needed very much. Traveling to different parts of Tanzania before delving into the busy bee work life. 

It took me falling ill for me to slow down again. My body knew I needed the break, but I cared about my work more. My body chose to say no. I felt like my body was defeating me, but little did I know, my body was telling me to slow down. 

So eventually, I listened. I worked from home, I allowed myself to have afternoon naps. I allowed my cousin to take care of me. I agreed to drink soups and whatever healthy meal I was advised to so that I can feel better. This is when I realized, even though I hated staying home, taking naps in the afternoon, or even eating healthy. I need all that for the next chapter of my life.

My body told me to slow down, because I kept pushing. My body was telling me it’s okay to slow things down, overworking doesn’t mean more happiness, more money or more joy. I am glad I listened to my body and I am now stronger because of it.