Sometimes you just let your day play out. Many times we try to influence how things happen. We already have a laid down structured plan we don't want to bend. We become too rigid to be flexible.
Life is too diverse and interesting to live an uptight lifestyle. Why limit yourself when you can be better? Why settle for silver when you can be gold. Why stop halfway when you can go the whole nine yard?
The most important thing is not to loose yourself finding your dream. Be open and dynamic but always stay focused on course. Experiment and explore real life options for good results. Just be the best of you always and you're on your way to a life long living success.