It’s only Wednesday, yet this week feels like Friday every single day. It’s the kind of week where you just want to wake up at 9 a.m. because your body and mind are already on Saturday.
Unfortunately for us adults, there are reports to write, deadlines to meet, clients to satisfy, colleagues to collaborate with, and other stakeholders to align with.
Today, I found myself working from home—which I managed to do until 11 a.m., when the power went out. Left with a dying laptop and no internet, I had no choice but to drive to the office. Once there, I continued working while dealing with calls that required my immediate attention.
Demands were coming from every corner. I felt overwhelmed.In response, I retreated to my “hiding place”—silence—and agreed to everything being said. I had no energy left to argue, even if I knew I was in the right. My responses were: Okay. Sawa. I will do that. It’s fine. To the person on the other end, they must have been happy to avoid the feisty version of me, at least for once. But internally, I was one negative reaction away from bursting into tears.I felt emotional. No, it wasn’t that time of the month. It was just another day in the life of an adult.
Later, I went to my person, ready to collapse into silence without saying a word. I needed a hug. I needed peace. Seeing how distressed I was, he bought me a cup of hot chocolate and a slice of cake to cheer me up.That simple act of kindness changed my mood. It made me realize that sometimes, all we need is someone who says, I see what you’re going through. I have my own struggles too, but let me take a few moments to make your day better.
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